Dangers of dating a sociopath
When a man has been a victim of a Female Sociopath, usually one of the above labels is given, instead of a Sociopath and/or Narcissistic Sociopath.Female Sociopaths are mentally and emotionally destructive liar’s, cheaters & deceivers, etc.Or in some cases divorced sociopath women with children will use them to gain sympathy from a new partner.These children can grow up feeling like an inconvenience to their mother’s, as they are also emotionally and mentally manipulated.Her children are just another ‘object’ to be used against the father.The children are often used as a supply source for her.Thanks for helping us achieve our mission of helping everyone learn how to do anything. Doubt will come in waves – our human, trusting, loving hearts try to rationalize the insanity of what happened. A sociopath’s “normal” is lying – they do not love.. Base everything we do, every decision we make while escaping on what’s best for our lives, our safety and well being. Become a helpless, emotionless, reactionless burden. Start being contrary, without being openly defiant.
The one liner that makes us reel, things like: “Push the clouds aside and look for that snippet of what feels right. If he or she walked out the door with any of our things – it’s best to let them go, especially if it’s only a CD or a sweater. Count on This: Sociopaths don’t want us to go no contact. Best not to save things that reminds us of him or her. With a sociopath, the best thing to do is to make the breakup seem like it was his or her choice; poison the well so the sociopath willingly leaves.Remove the objects that come with us: money, cars, meal preparation, the internet, cable, errand running, credit cards. The National Mental Health Institute says it’s 1 in 100 and that it’s more likely to find Antisocial Personality Disorder (the DSM-IV term) in men. Hold onto that one phrase uttered by the sociopath that is so unusual we can’t comprehend it. Throw it out – put it on the street – whatever it is. Block them in our phones, email, and all social media. Delete IP addresses of computers that aren’t ours – Then change our password. It makes us the polar opposite of what they look for in their prey. We’ve collapsed, erased, eviscerated their world and their existence. You do not want to get into an all-out fight with a sociopath when the sociopath feels like his survival is threatened. At those times we feel we’re on a gigantic Tilt-o-Whirl. – If AT&T is our internet provider, go to our AT&T account online to see which laptops or devices used our internet service. They’re also afraid we’ll tell others what they’ve done or report them to authorities. Paint the walls – paint the furniture, rearrange it – anything we can refresh – do it. “You may think the sociopath respects your boundaries, but the sociopath will not be sympathetic to your needs. The sociopath has his needs, and will fight to make sure they’re met.